I coach individuals into radical responsibility, presence and flow — and couples into deep, expansive intimacy.
My mission is to help men and women use their relationship struggles as the ultimate catalyst for their personal healing and evolution.
I support them to face their shadow and embrace all of their parts with radical compassion.
I give them permission to finally feel their feelings and become radically present to what is.
I guide them into their truth and power so that they can live authentic, self-directed lives from the inside out.
Hi, I’m Saadya.
I know what it’s like to feel lost in your own life—to hit a point where everything you thought was working suddenly isn’t. My own near-divorce shattered me open, forcing me to confront the deepest layers of my pain, shame, and conditioning. I had to rebuild myself from the inside out—facing childhood wounds, healing my relational trauma, metabolizing shame, and reclaiming my power as a man, a husband, and a father. It wasn’t easy, but it was the most important work of my life.
Through that journey, I discovered that relationships are mirrors. The things we struggle with most in love—distance, resentment, lack of desire, conflict—aren’t problems to be fixed. They’re invitations. They reveal the exact places where we’re being called to grow, heal, and expand.
My work is about guiding people through that transformation. I work with individuals, couples, and groups using a deeply intuitive and personal approach that blends masculine/feminine polarity, somatic healing, Internal Family Systems (IFS), trauma integration, and therapeutic psychedelics. I help men step into grounded, heart-led masculine leadership. I help women reconnect with their feminine radiance and safety. I help couples dissolve years of pain and stagnation and rediscover intimacy, trust, and passion.
I believe healing isn’t about fixing yourself—it’s about meeting yourself with such radical honesty and compassion that transformation becomes inevitable. When you shift your inner world, your outer reality responds. Relationships deepen. Purpose clarifies. Life starts to flow. Joy, play, pleasure, abundance, fulfillment—all of it is waiting for you.
If you’re here, you’re ready. Whether you’re facing personal struggles, relationship challenges, or longing for a deeper, more authentic way of being, this work will meet you where you are—and take you further than you thought possible.
Let’s uncover the life you were meant to live. One where you feel seen, understood, and profoundly alive.
Much love,
Saadya